“Her life story, like the story in this book, serves as an inspiration to us–to do our individual best, practice our beliefs, keep our faith, morals and ethics; and do everything with compassion and empathy.” — VP of Engineering in R&D for Military Systems, Formerly served with the US Army and Navy
For decades, my world was defined by the intricate logic of software engineering: analysis, automation, data processing, diagnostics, images, integration, and user interface. Yet, amidst the algorithms and code, I was journaling and grappling with life’s most urgent questions: How do we find true peace when faced with the worst? How do we thrive when traditional success fails us? It was only after navigating the profound trauma of what I call Empathy Deficits that I unexpectedly found my voice.
My book, Empathy Deficits, emerged from the raw pages of my personal journal. This isn't just a collection of professional insights; it’s a story about us. It is a path to transforming suffering into strength and accessing the unshakeable tranquility that resides within every human being. Through the clarity of reflection, I discovered that self-empathy and kindness aren’t just virtues—they are precision tools for protection and recovery.
I have always been driven by an insatiable curiosity and a preference for reality over ego. I value details over rhetoric and peaceful solutions over prolonged disputes. Often, I find myself enjoying alone time, peculiarly paying attention to the details that others might miss. My journey from a victim of others' misdeeds to an author in control of her own narrative was fueled by one truth: While our struggles feel isolating, the solution is something we build together.
I chose to publish my journal to show why we must share our stories and what truly matters most. By restoring empathy—starting with ourselves—we can transform any situation. We have the power to extract the best from the worst and find happiness where we least expect it.
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